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Bullying vs. Mobbing
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psychological
harassment
The
following words Bullying, Mobbing, Victimization, Emotional Abuse,
Psychological Abuse, and Psychological Violence may have different
definitions from each other but Psychological Harassment does include
them all.
The following page was taken from
Workplace Mobbing in Academe
Kenneth Westhues, Department of Sociology, University of Waterloo, 2007
Bullying vs.
Mobbing: a Difference of Priorities and Outlook
While some researchers
of workplace conflict treat bullying
and mobbing as synonyms, most
acknowledge that the two words point to different kinds of aggression.
Bullying suggests a physically
belligerent, hostile, overbearing individual, usually a manager, who
takes pleasure in lording it over one or more subordinates.
Mobbing connotes a number of
ordinary workers at whatever level who unfairly gang up on a manager,
peer, or subordinate, tormenting the person in usually nonviolent ways.
Both forms of
aggression are worth studying, since both do serious harm to the person
or people targeted, as well as to the overall climate of social
relations and the quality and productivity of the workplace.
The difference between
bullying and
mobbing runs deeper, however, than
the kinds of aggression the words point to. The difference extends also
to different priorities for workplace relations, even different outlooks
on life.
Here is a true story
of workplace conflict (actually a composite, with identifying
information omitted) that I tell in my classes. My students vary in
which of the parties they sympathize with. As you read the story here,
ask yourself where your own sympathies lie. After the story, I will
suggest what can be inferred from your answer for which of the two
problems, bullying or mobbing, concerns you more.
A Case of Workplace Conflict in Health Care
The story is set in the maternity ward of a community hospital. A
woman at full term has gone into labor. She is in the delivery room.
The baby's birth is imminent. The woman's husband is with her,
standing at the head of the bed holding her hand and comforting her.
At the foot of the bed is the obstetrician, coaching and
encouraging, saying when to push and when to take deep breaths. To
his left and a little behind him is the nurse. She stands beside a
tray of instruments. The delivery is proceeding normally.
As
the baby begins to come out, the doctor is poised to receive it in
his hands. Without looking back at the nurse, he asks her for
something on the tray — a towel, clamp, whatever — and holds out his
left hand to receive it. Nothing is placed in his hand.
He
turns to his left. He sees that the nurse has left the room.
He
himself grabs whatever he was asking for. The delivery is
successful. The doctor places the newborn on its mother's breast.
The parents are overwhelmed with joy.
The doctor excuses himself for a moment, steps out of the delivery
room, quickly finds another nurse and asks her to give the newborn
standard postnatal care. He asks this nurse what happened to the one
who was assisting him. She answers that the first nurse's shift
ended and she went home.
The doctor says nothing to the second nurse, nor to the new parents,
but he is outraged that the first nurse walked out in the middle of
the delivery. He considers her action the height of
irresponsibility, especially because she did not even tell him she
was leaving. Had there been a last-minute problem, her abrupt
departure could have endangered the baby's or the mother's life.
As
the doctor is entering the hospital the next morning, he happens to
pass this nurse in the corridor.
"I
have something to say to you," he tells her. She stops. Her back is
against the corridor wall. He is standing in front of her, close
enough that she feels uncomfortable. He wags his finger at her and
says quietly, "If you ever walk out on a delivery again, I will have
your ass fired." Then he walks on.
Later that day, this doctor and nurse are again working together on
some procedure. Things go smoothly, There are no harsh words. The
doctor makes a silly joke. The nurse smiles.
The doctor gives no further thought to the incident. It is in his
memory, of course, as are his words to the nurse, but he does not
expect she will repeat the misconduct for which he reprimanded her.
The nurse, however, has been traumatized by the doctor's misconduct.
She is deeply upset, terrified at the thought of losing her job.
Other staff were in the corridor when she was scolded. They probably
saw the doctor shaking his finger at her, and guessed that she was
being chewed out. She feels abused and publicly shamed.
It
was not as if she left the delivery room on a whim. She had to leave
promptly at the end of her shift, as always on that day of the week,
to pick up her two pre-schoolers from daycare. She is a single
mother living in a creepy townhouse, driving a rustbucket of a car,
and dealing day after day with the stress of juggling childcare and
career.
The nurse is so angry and depressed she cannot sleep that night,
then loses her temper with her children the next morning, as she
gets them ready and hustles them out the door for the ride to the
daycare centre.
The nurse shares her concerns with two co-workers, also nurses. They
commiserate with her. They have stories of their own to tell about
the doctor in question. He is known to be gruff with hospital staff
and to have low tolerance for mistakes, as if the whole world should
revolve around his patients. The co-workers urge the nurse to
consult with the grievance officer of the staff union, and assure
her they will testify as witnesses on her behalf if the dispute ends
up in a formal hearing.
The grievance officer is also sympathetic to the nurse's complaint.
In his view, it is one more example of the unfair treatment
routinely inflicted on union members by doctors and administrators.
The collective agreement clearly forbids requiring staff to work
overtime on short notice. It also forbids abusive and threatening
language. It spells out clear procedures through the chain of
command if a physician wants to complain about a nurse. The
procedures do not include angry, public confrontation in a hospital
corridor.
In
the course of explaining what happened to the grievance officer, the
nurse breaks down in tears, saying over and over, "I can't go on
like this." The grievance officer suggests she go immediately for
medical help. Her physician prescribes a mild antidepressant and
places her on stress leave for the rest of the week.
At
a meeting on an unrelated matter with the hospital CEO a few days
later, the grievance officer mentions that a grievance may soon be
filed over abuse of a nurse by a physician. The grievance officer is
careful not to identify the parties, but the CEO can guess who they
are, since gossip about the incident in the corridor has already
reached him. The CEO listens to the grievance officer impassively,
but he thinks to himself that he will not likely go to bat for the
accused in this case. This doctor is not a team player. He has
challenged the CEO in staff meetings over alleged laxity in
standards of patient care. He needs to be taught a lesson, taken
down a notch.
The grievance policy requires that a formal grievance be filed not
later that two weeks after the event being grieved. Just before the
deadline, the physician picks up from his mailbox a letter marked
"confidential" from the union president. It indicates that copies
have been sent to the nurse-complainant, the grievance officer, the
director of nursing, the CEO, and the chief of medical staff. The
letter states the complaint against him, that he abused, intimidated
and threatened a nurse by word and gesture in a public corridor,
using obscene and derisive language, and causing her emotional
distress serious enough to require medical treatment. The letter
also states the complainant's desired remedy: a formal apology from
the doctor, and an appropriate penalty for him to be determined by
the CEO, in keeping with principles of progressive discipline.
An
arbitration for resolving the grievance is scheduled at the soonest
possible date, which turns out to be six weeks ahead. Meanwhile,
pending resolution of the grievance, the CEO suspends the
physician's hospital privileges in accordance with policy requiring
proactive intervention to safeguard staff from potential threats to
their health and safety.
What Your Sympathies Imply for Your Approach to Workplace Conflict
If,
having read this story, you find yourself sympathizing mainly with the
nurse, you are probably more interested in the problem of
workplace bullying. What leapt out
at you in the narrative, the key fact of the case, was the doctor's
verbal attack on the nurse in the corridor and the distress it caused.
If your
sympathies are mainly with the doctor, you are probably more interested
in the problem of workplace mobbing.
What struck you most about the story, the key fact of the case, was that
the nurse walked out in the middle of a baby's birth, and then joined
with others in an attack on the doctor who reprimanded her, involving at
minimum a six-week disruption of his practice.
Here
are seven pervasive themes in the research literature on workplace
bullying:
(1) The nub of the problem is a cruel, overbearing individual who makes
life miserable for one or more subordinates or co-workers;
(2) Bullies and victims may be of either sex, but the stereotypical
bully is male (the doctor in this story) and the stereotypical victim is
female (the nurse);
(3) Bullying is usually an overstepping or abuse of authority (the
higher-status doctor uses his power over the lower-status nurse to
tyrannize her);
(4) Bullying is an infringement of a worker's rights (the point about
overtime), a denial of the human dignity guaranteed by legislation,
human rights codes, and collective agreements;
(5) In any organization, the chain of command must be respected, and
complaints made through proper channels (as opposed to taking matters in
one's own hands, as the doctor did in the story);
(6) The bully's attacks may involve formal punishment but usually
consist mainly of hurtful, abusive verbal attacks that damage the
target's self-esteem and emotional equilibrium, leading to a breakdown
of health;
(7) What defines the bullying is above all the target's experience, his
or her perception of deep, demeaning hostility from the bully.
Here
are seven corresponding themes in the research literature on workplace
mobbing:
(1) The nub of the problem is the ganging up of workers to demonize,
humiliate, and scapegoat a target who has done little if anything wrong;
(2) Mobbers and targets may be of either sex, but women are often
over-represented among mobbers, whether the target is male or female;
(3) The target of mobbing usually excels in his or her work, sets high
standards for both self and others (like the doctor in this story):
(4) Mobbing diminishes the quality of work (in this example, a doctor
trying to ensure safe childbirth ends up being punished);
(5) Most problems that arise in a workplace can be solved by workers
themselves, without managerial intervention (in this story, the doctor
warned the nurse privately, instead of reporting her to her supervisor);
(6) The mob's attack has an informal aspect (like gossip and shunning),
but consists mainly of official sanctions (like suspension of the
doctor's hospital privileges):
(7) The mobbing is defined not by anybody's personal feelings but by the
facts of what happened (nurse walks out on delivery, doctor scolds her
for it, and so on).
For Further Insight into Your Reaction to the Story
This
story helps clarify the reader's outlook and priorities on work not only
because it is based on actual events but also because, like most
workplace conflicts, it is not clear-cut. Most readers can see both the
doctor's and the nurse's sides. Sure, the nurse should not have walked
out on the delivery, but neither should the doctor have accosted her in
the corridor.
To
become further aware of your own thinking, ask yourself how your
sympathies might shift if the story were slightly different. Suppose:
(1) That the nurse had asked her supervisor in advance not to be
assigned to this delivery, on account of having to leave immediately at
the end of her shift; or
(2) That the nurse had arranged with another nurse to replace her in the
delivery room a little before the end of her shift, but the other nurse
forgot; or
(3) That the nurse had said before she left, "My shift is over and I
have to leave, so I'm going out to find somebody to replace me here"; or
(4) That when the doctor confronted the nurse in the corridor, he yelled
at her so that others could hear, "You are a worthless bitch who has no
business working in this hospital; I intend to have your ass thrown out
of here"; or
(5) That the doctor had a long record of storming angrily at others,
including his own patients, possibly to cover up his own mistakes.
Under any
or all of these five conditions, the doctor's berating of the nurse
would seem less justified, and most observers would be more concerned
about his bullying.
Contrariwise, ask yourself how the following other possible differences
in the story might alter how you would characterize the conflict.
Suppose:
(1) That other nurses and doctors had complained that this nurse and her
friends were uncaring and lackadaisical, and that this was the third
formal complaint she had made in the past year that somebody was
bullying her; or
(2) That the doctor was a woman and the nurse was a young single man who
walked out on the delivery to meet friends in a bar; or
(3) That the board of trustees was on the brink of firing the CEO on
grounds that he failed to maintain proper standards of patient care; or
(4) That when the doctor confronted the nurse in the corridor, he said,
"If you ever walk out on a delivery again, I will feel obliged to file a
complaint against you with the Director of Nursing"; or
(5) That there had been last-minute complications in the delivery, and
that on account of the nurse's absence, the baby almost died.
Under any
or all of these five conditions, the collective action against the
doctor would seem less justified, and most observers would be more
concerned about his (or her) being mobbed.
Solutions
In an
ideal world, the doctor and the nurse in the story would have met to
discuss how to prevent the problem happening again, by more flexible
scheduling, better communication, advance planning, or some other way.
Moving directly to formal arbitration of the grievance and interim
suspension of the doctor's hospital privileges was clearly premature. A
skilled CEO or director of nursing might have mediated between doctor
and nurse, smoothed things over, validated the concerns of both parties,
and renewed both parties' commitment to patients' health and well-being.
But we do
not live in an ideal world. Humans sometimes behave badly, with
resultant upheavals in workplaces of all kinds, hospitals not least.
Researchers of workplace conflict try to produce knowledge that fits the
facts and points toward better ways of doing things. Certain cases of
conflict can only be described as
bullying. Others are clearly mobbing.
Very many can be described with either word, depending on the
researcher's or observer's outlook and priorities.
As is
plain from this website, my interest is mainly workplace mobbing. In the
story told above, I see three regrettable events. First, a nurse walks
out on her job at a critical moment. Second, a doctor accosts her in the
corridor on that account. Third, the nurse, her friends, the union, and
the CEO mount a concerted attack on the doctor's position and name: they
mob him. I count this the most
regrettable, amazing, and horrifying event of the three, partially
because of the harm done to him, but mainly because of the damage to
what should be the hospital's top priority. I would not want any woman
to give birth or any baby to be born in a hospital that puts staff
feelings ahead of patients' health.
In the
view of some commentators, overconcern with workplace bullying (mobbing,
too, in so far as it involves hurt feelings) has relegated to the
sidelines what should be front and centre in any workplace: getting the
work done well. In 2006, a large award by a British court to a victim of
harassment by co-workers sparked
intense debate over who, in fact, got taken advantage of by
whom. In his 2007 essay on "The
Hypersensitive Workplace." David Butcher argues that there is
an important line, however elusive, between rudeness and harassment,
support and handholding. In a trenchant entry on his
Scientific Misconduct Blog,
Aubrey Blumsohn laments a situation where "civility, decorum and status"
displace genuine ethics.
Research
and public concern about both bullying and mobbing will doubtless
continue, and so will a certain difference of "feel" between the two
fields of inquiry. Scholars who prefer to talk about bullying will
continue to be a little wary of those who prefer to talk about mobbing,
and vice versa. This webpage has been intended to clarify the reasons
for that wariness, and to help readers situate themselves in the debate.
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